Successfully attracting women can be a daunting task. It is almost like navigating a minefield because there are so many things that can go wrong.
One of the most essential things for you to grasp in order to increase your success with women is; there are plenty of women out there and you can learn to be attractive to all of them. When you fail and step on a landmine and things go horribly wrong, remember it's only one girl and the truth is it's her loss.
You are a good guy looking to treat a woman the right way. If she was offended or didn't find you attractive let it roll off your back and talk to the next girl. It also is very important to learn the dynamics of people, specifically attraction and women.
The best way to learn what works and what doesn't is by trial and error. I assure you this trial and error will result in some painful rejection. However when you do experience success you will feel on top of the world!
The amazing thing is one success interaction with a woman can be worth 100 rejections. If you learn and make it a study to find out what women are attracted too you can succeed at a very high rate.
I recently heard an intelligent man say "if life was boring what would I do with myself." This quote helps to keep things in perspective because once you experience a little bit of success you realize that rejection is simply part of the process of dating. It happens to everyone regardless of age, income, profession…
If you want to attract the right girl and the girl that you can be happy with then you have to meet a lot of girls. You will need to date a number of different girls to make sure when you settle down you are making the right choice.
Further talking to women and trying to exchange phone numbers is thrilling. Even after years and years of experience and success, there is still no feeling like it. Your body has a similar reaction to the flight or flight symptoms when you ask a girl out.
If you struggle with talking to women there are some excellent resources to help you with this. I would strongly encourage you to read anything by Dale Carnegie and there is a plethora of books about making friends.
It sounds corny and you may feel weird purchasing and reading these books however contrary to what many people will tell you talking to a woman is only slightly different than talking to a man. The principles apply to both sexes, for example people like talking about themselves.
A great way to engage in conversation with a girl is to ask her about herself: where are you from, what he do for work, what you studying in school, does your family live here… There is obviously a lot more to engaging a woman in conversation but these are the basics.
If you are sick of feeling lonely and want to find the right girl for you, I promise you can. You must be willing and ready to do the work but you can transform yourself and find that all women you come in contact with find you attractive. Keep in mind just because a woman finds you attractive does not mean anything because she may be married or in a relationship.