It's important to be different when you're flirting with girls. Why? If she sees you as just like every other guy your likelihood of success will drop dramatically.
How Do You Stand Out From the Crowd?
1. Smile - smiling is the most basic form of flirting. If you look her in the eyes and smile a lot you will be flirting with her and very few men use this. Further when you do this you are showing the most attractive version of yourself. Women are much more attractive when they are smiling at you than not!
2. Don't Compliment - often men will approach a girl and the first thing they have to say is a compliment to her. Don't do this! When you compliment on a first conversation or a first date it is seen as desperate, pathetic, and unattractive. Additionally if you wait until a second, fourth, or eleventh date to compliment her it will mean more to her because she knows it's sincere and genuine.
3. Act As If - act like you have the best life ever. Be happy and outgoing. When you talk with her be energetic and excited about the things she is doing with her life and the stuff you are doing with your life. This is called charisma and it is magnetic it will attract people to you! Think about everything you have to be appreciative of; life, happiness, job, money, family, career, education, ambition... there are a lot of things you have to be thankful for.
Further there are a lot of things you bring to the table in a relationship; you will be trustworthy, loving, caring... Let this feeling come through in your body language. Do this through smiling, laughing, being energetic, and outgoing. The worst thing in life is a lack of women? Well, that is really an easy fix and on the bright side there sure are plenty of women in the world!
4. Always Close - If you have pushed down all the anxiety and fear that usually prevents us from approaching her you better at least ask for her number. Even if you don't expect success you may be pleasantly surprised and at the end of the day at least you tried to get her number. There is nothing worse than the regret of not trying to close and ask for her number!
In sum, you want to be different. You want to be unique and you want to give the impression that you are happy, confident, outgoing... By following these four steps you will achieve this and your success rate will increase dramatically!