When you are approaching women it's important to realize and try to get an idea of what they are really looking for in a man? Often women are looking for someone that is and can be their equal, someone that is caring, loving, and supportive.
One of the biggest mistakes men make, is that they don't treat women as equals and instead will put them on a pedestal. While there are obvious differences between Men and Women, its important to realize that there is really very little difference in having a conversation with either sex. We are all very similar and looking for someone that will really listen to us.
If you've spent most of your life single or have been dating the wrong type of girls, it is ok. You can find the woman of your dreams if you are willing to do some work and facing some rejection from women. I assure you it will be worth it especially when you find the woman you really connect with. An important idea you need to understand is: the more women you get exposed to, meet, talk with, and date the more likely you are to find the right girl for you.
What Do You Want In a Woman?
It's incredibly important also for you to identify and start to figure out the things that are important to you in a girlfriend? It is also important to identify what characteristics and qualities you are attracted to and want in a girlfriend. Take a moment, close your eyes and picture the woman the women you would like to marry and think about the relationship you would have with her.
This woman you pictured was probably a women you really connected with, this is what most people want in a spouse. Further, while you may have spent all your life only dating the girls that would say yes when you asked them out. If you follow some easy suggestions you can decide what girls you want to date. In other words you no longer have to only date a few girls and instead you can choose which girls you want to date.
Take action today, go out and start smiling at girls. Make sure to look them in the eyes. When a girl smiles back at you walk up and introduce yourself. You will be creating a great first impression with her by smiling and you will appear confident. Stop waiting for the right woman to just come along, you must be proactive and go out and find her.
If you are having difficulty talking with girls, engaging women in conversation, being liked by women then you have to learn how. There are some great teachers and we would encourage you to study Dale Carnegie one of the great self improvement minds of the twenty-first century. There are plenty of other resources you should review, but no matter what you will have to do some work.
Contrary to what many people believe charismatic people are not often born. It is true a few people have very easily been able to develop a charismatic and engaging personality without very much work. However the vast majority of people you see with these talents have had to work and develop them.
I personally lacked many of these skills for a long time which I directly link to my lack of ability to pick up women. With a lot of work and continued work it has become second nature to have a conversation with a stranger. Just last week I was flying home from the vacation and meet a girl on the plane and engaged her in conversation. We have plans to get a cup of coffee this week.